Ankur Banerjee

Ankur Banerjee

Tuesday, January 27, 2015


I'm in a Relationship.

-"seriously? are you in a relation? How can you even manage such a thing?"- asked me a Man.
A man with no accurate knowledge of what a relationship is, or what it feels like?

I dont understand what is so unique about being in a relation. you can be in one, I am in one, and everyone deserves to be in a relationship. A relationship with a girl/boy whom he/she Loves.

LOve!!! A four letter word, around which every single Humans heart revolves.

Luv is wen aftr u break up purposely callin ur
partner n sayin..
"SORRY galti se lag gya adat thi na "
Luv is wen u say I HATE U...I HATE U...n ur partner
smiles n keeps on sayin...
"You cant...i bet...You cant.."
Luv is wen u realise no one in dis wrld cn b as swt as
hr wen she smiles
Luv is wen u wnt 2 hate dat unknwngly u
strt lovin that prsn.
Luv is wen u snd a gn msg n cnt sleep till ur
partner's rply cums... .
This is true luV..
.And after reading the above lines who comes first in your mind that is your love!

 Now, about Relationship,

I wanted to be in a relationship where She can wear my large t-shirt at night.
We both can sleep together in one bed.
We can be like kids making silly faces and doing baby talks...
I can shout at her when I’m mad, then she’ll hug me tight so I’ll shut up.
She’ll pull me close to her so I won’t have the chance to let go.
We’ll watch horror movies together, I’ll kiss her secretly then she’ll smile.
We’ll fight, but not that much. We’ll break up but get back together few days after.
She’ll make me the luckiest boy in the world.
And I’ll be the only Man she loves...

Thats Love for me, and that's what I have always got from Ninja.

I am in a relationship which is just the way I wanted it to be, with  the girl I wanted it to be.


Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Don’t give up on love, read this instead!

Many times we wish and wish for the right person to come into our lives. We don’t seem to understand why it’s not working out with others. We end up in toxic, unloving relationships, and deep down know something better is out there. 

The challenge is, when something better does come along, to not run away.

After years of disappointment, heart break and unhappy endings, it can be very easy to close down on real love. No matter what, don’t’ let that happen!
Remember, strength in the muscles of your body is created by your muscles being ripped apart, and then rebuilt. Your heart and your emotional intelligence and fitness operate the same way. It is easy to close down after you’ve been hurt. It’s easy to throw a wrench into real love when it comes. I understand it’s scary, but WHO CARES

Move forward in spite of your fear. Move forward INTO the scariness of it all. Be courageous. Don’t let fear win. OPEN UP anyway. The risk of not opening, in the end, is far worse than the risk of opening.

Don’t let love pass you by. Don’t let fear win.

NO! Instead, let love win. Open up, even when, you are afraid. Open up, even when you are scared of getting hurt. Open up, even when you don’t know what’s going to happen.

Listen to me: LOVE WILL PASS YOU BY if you always choose the safe path.

I am not suggesting that you open up to the first person who comes along. No. I am not suggesting that at all. I am suggesting that when you have a connection with someone, when you feel it, when you are so scared of how much you feel it, go in the opposite direction of your fear. Do not be afraid of the love you feel.

KNOW THIS: The right person will meet you. The right person will show up. But they can’t if you don’t open.

Learn to value openness and rebuilding your heart more than safety. Don’t let the wounds of the past create a wounded future. No. It can be different. Love can be yours. But first you must be open to it. Learn how to be more loving from your past pain, not how to be more closed.

                                             Don’t give up on love, no, give IN TO love!